After a long survey, I found there are "Nine Legendary Phrases" used by women most of the time.....
1. FINE : This is the word women used to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up. So TRUE!! lolx that of course include me.
2. 5 MINUTES : If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house. My brother, been there...really true...
3. NOTHING : This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fire. Aiyoi..my brother always get this during the "day" of the month...never missed.. !!! poor thing....
4. GO AHEAD : This is a dare, not permission. GUYS~! Don't Do It!
5. LOUD SIGH: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to # 3 for the meaning of nothing.) (+_+) ....
6. THAT'S OK : This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake. Ops, sorry girls.... just a tip sharing hahaha.
7. THANKS : A woman is thanking you, do not question, or faint. Just say you're welcome. (I want to add in a clause here - This is true, unless she says 'Thanks a lot' - that is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say 'you're welcome' . That will bring on a 'WHATEVER'). Hahahahah..so TRUE
8. WHATEVER : Is a woman's way of saying FxxK YOU! Hell yea..guys normally just said "FxxK YOU"
9. DON WORRY ABOUT IT, I'VE GOT IT : Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to # 3.
Guys..nothing you can do about this except endure it..or find a way around it..Amuse us..entertain us ..
all the best ~
Monday, May 24, 2010
Sunday, May 23, 2010
All relationship is created by God and maintained by the lovers ....
Today somebody told me these love principles which I think is accurate so I share it here…
Here
At early 20s,we ask to set principles.
1. Love is understanding
2. Love need respect
3. Love is commitment.
There, we running these principles…
When we going into 30s, each point will grow more sentences.
1. Love is understanding. Do you understand me,my past and my future
2. Love need respect. Do you respect me as much I respect you. As partner, as a women, as your loved one
3. Love is commitment. How we are commited to each other..in our own unique way..
By the time you married, the field levels willl be totally difererent.
1. Love is understanding – both should understanding each other and is no longer a couple. It a partnership call family. I can know what you think without asking already..
2. Love needs respect – you respect him as leader of the family, he respect you as the backbone of the family. Both equally important. Each complete each other.
3. Love is commitment – you no longer think you will lose him or her but think how to commit to make the family happy and growing.
Here
At early 20s,we ask to set principles.
1. Love is understanding
2. Love need respect
3. Love is commitment.
There, we running these principles…
When we going into 30s, each point will grow more sentences.
1. Love is understanding. Do you understand me,my past and my future
2. Love need respect. Do you respect me as much I respect you. As partner, as a women, as your loved one
3. Love is commitment. How we are commited to each other..in our own unique way..
By the time you married, the field levels willl be totally difererent.
1. Love is understanding – both should understanding each other and is no longer a couple. It a partnership call family. I can know what you think without asking already..
2. Love needs respect – you respect him as leader of the family, he respect you as the backbone of the family. Both equally important. Each complete each other.
3. Love is commitment – you no longer think you will lose him or her but think how to commit to make the family happy and growing.
Saturday, May 22, 2010
Finally ...
Thought of sharing this blog with everybody ... it is very painful but it is also the truth, so here goes ;
FINALLY ....
Thank you for the honesty.
It completed everything.
I wasn't wrong.
You wasn't right.
At least, you ending it kind of save me.
Because it is not worth it.
Just ironic your loyalty which you proud of.
You just sway in such short period compare over the time we had.
It show how fragile human feeling is,
Regardless how good a person is.
I could not hate you at all
Nor I could think this is all your faults.
Maybe it was my fault to begin..to be so persistent..something I considered now, is wrong.
Yes, I would bled and bear the pain.
But smiles craving at the corner of my lips.
I was never wrong..maybe wrong for not trusting myself.
Trust that ME more than good for you.
You are going to be a memory now..slowly and definitely..
A memory which has so many losses.
Every lost is a lesson learned.
Finally....
I know I need to grow up and learn to let you go.
I' m going to miss you but I have got to get a move on with my life.
Fairy tales don't always have a happy ending, do they?
I wish you all the best wishes and good luck in your life.
Because I think you need it more than me.
Try not to get lost in your life....
For you know that I am not going to be there anymore........ c",)
FINALLY ....
Thank you for the honesty.
It completed everything.
I wasn't wrong.
You wasn't right.
At least, you ending it kind of save me.
Because it is not worth it.
Just ironic your loyalty which you proud of.
You just sway in such short period compare over the time we had.
It show how fragile human feeling is,
Regardless how good a person is.
I could not hate you at all
Nor I could think this is all your faults.
Maybe it was my fault to begin..to be so persistent..something I considered now, is wrong.
Yes, I would bled and bear the pain.
But smiles craving at the corner of my lips.
I was never wrong..maybe wrong for not trusting myself.
Trust that ME more than good for you.
You are going to be a memory now..slowly and definitely..
A memory which has so many losses.
Every lost is a lesson learned.
Finally....
I know I need to grow up and learn to let you go.
I' m going to miss you but I have got to get a move on with my life.
Fairy tales don't always have a happy ending, do they?
I wish you all the best wishes and good luck in your life.
Because I think you need it more than me.
Try not to get lost in your life....
For you know that I am not going to be there anymore........ c",)
Friday, May 21, 2010
♥ I LOVE YOU ♥

I love you for giving your heart to me
and trusting me with your pride
I love you for wanting me
and needing me by your side
I love you for the emotions
I never knew i had
I love you for making me smile
Wenever I am in pain >.<>
I love you for your thoughts of me
where I am always on your mind
I love you for finding that part of me
that I thought I have lost and never thought I would find
I love you for all the special qualities
that make you one of a kind
I love you for the way you are
for how you make me feel
But most of all " I LOVE YOU "
because I know you are MINE for real.......
with love...♥
Thursday, May 20, 2010
Can life really be without regrets?

"If only I could turn back time. I would change a few things in my life".
How many people can confidently say they've never wished this for themselves at some point in their life?
Can life really be without regrets?
No one is spared of this agony. We just have to realise - that some things NEED to happen for better things to come to our way. Some lessons that we just have to learn . And some shit in life, we just have to deal with it...Like it or not,there's just no other way.
WHY? WHY?!! I do not know why, me frequently would ask GOD that too...."WHY ME? WHY CHOOSE ME?" - Karma I guess... or maybe simply His way of teaching or leading us.
It's always painful when this happens. We just have be strong and bear through it... try to comfort yourself by reminding yourself "Everything happens for a reason, better things waiting ahead ." It may take some time for things to heal or get better. Trust me, do not blame anybody... sometimes people just make mistakes. Its not done purposely. It just happen. One fine day when you look back - smiles craving at the corner of your lips, whispering inside.... eerr don't ask me, i don't know hahaha joking ...but by then that will be your answer.
The best way to deal with this is to seek out ALTERNATIVES in our chart to replace the "emptiness" that is present. Most charts would have options. But if we are too engrossed in the present "PAIN", the better future cannot unfold.
This is so true - hope this little message of mine help , by the way who ate all my Kacang Tumbuk ?!
How many people can confidently say they've never wished this for themselves at some point in their life?
Can life really be without regrets?
No one is spared of this agony. We just have to realise - that some things NEED to happen for better things to come to our way. Some lessons that we just have to learn . And some shit in life, we just have to deal with it...Like it or not,there's just no other way.
WHY? WHY?!! I do not know why, me frequently would ask GOD that too...."WHY ME? WHY CHOOSE ME?" - Karma I guess... or maybe simply His way of teaching or leading us.
It's always painful when this happens. We just have be strong and bear through it... try to comfort yourself by reminding yourself "Everything happens for a reason, better things waiting ahead ." It may take some time for things to heal or get better. Trust me, do not blame anybody... sometimes people just make mistakes. Its not done purposely. It just happen. One fine day when you look back - smiles craving at the corner of your lips, whispering inside.... eerr don't ask me, i don't know hahaha joking ...but by then that will be your answer.
The best way to deal with this is to seek out ALTERNATIVES in our chart to replace the "emptiness" that is present. Most charts would have options. But if we are too engrossed in the present "PAIN", the better future cannot unfold.
This is so true - hope this little message of mine help , by the way who ate all my Kacang Tumbuk ?!
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
message to you 2

To my DEAREST,
Thanks for appeared in my life....
We know each other few years ago and we getting know each other by day-to-day.
We have experienced all the joy and sorrow.
I'm glad to know you in my life, you shine my life.
You are the one and only my BEST friend which I can shared everything.
I appreciated every precious moment we have been through.
Thanks for your opinion, your suggestion and your advises.
Thanks for always being there for me.
I hope you are in the right track.
I hope you can really get what you want and know what are you doing right now.
Don't get yourself hurt.
God blessed you ♥
with love...♥
Monday, May 17, 2010
message to you 1

To my BUDDIES,
We knowing each other for quite a long time almost touch 9 years.
Thanks for being my buddies..
How are you all right now? Is it getting better?
Have you all achieve your requirements?
I miss you all.. I miss those days we were being together..
we had crazy life during our secondary time,
we was together go through every moments.
happiness.....sadness.....arguement...and also tears.....
I hope you all are happy with your life now..
I hope you will get what you want..
Learned in your life..
Being happy and enjoy the L.I.F.E.
We knowing each other for quite a long time almost touch 9 years.
Thanks for being my buddies..
How are you all right now? Is it getting better?
Have you all achieve your requirements?
I miss you all.. I miss those days we were being together..
we had crazy life during our secondary time,
we was together go through every moments.
happiness.....sadness.....arguement...and also tears.....
I hope you all are happy with your life now..
I hope you will get what you want..
Learned in your life..
Being happy and enjoy the L.I.F.E.
I ♥ you BUDDIES
with love..... ♥
Saturday, May 15, 2010
Memories
L.I.F.E.
My life was changed..
I have burden and commitment..
Life wasn't so easy and relax..
..........erm.........
i really miss those days
i ♥ my family
i ♥ my buddies
i ♥ my friends
i ♥ my schoolmates
i ♥ malacca
i ♥ my dearest
i ♥ the freedom
There are all my sweet memories... life has changed, its not as sweet as before,
my family --- are getting older
my buddies --- have their own life and career
my friends --- have their new friends
my schoolmates --- have their own development
my dearest --- have their loved one
although life is changing everyday and nobody can predict the future..
We have to appreciate every precious moment we have right now,
let's the sweet memories always keep inside the heart...
continue our fantastic LIFE...
thousands of thanks for colouring my life ♥
p/s: ref zhu an
My life was changed..
I have burden and commitment..
Life wasn't so easy and relax..
..........erm.........
i really miss those days
i ♥ my family
i ♥ my buddies
i ♥ my friends
i ♥ my schoolmates
i ♥ malacca
i ♥ my dearest
i ♥ the freedom
There are all my sweet memories... life has changed, its not as sweet as before,
my family --- are getting older
my buddies --- have their own life and career
my friends --- have their new friends
my schoolmates --- have their own development
my dearest --- have their loved one
although life is changing everyday and nobody can predict the future..
We have to appreciate every precious moment we have right now,
let's the sweet memories always keep inside the heart...
continue our fantastic LIFE...
thousands of thanks for colouring my life ♥
p/s: ref zhu an
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
~ FRIENDS ~

What do you mean by FRIENDs?
True friendship is perhaps the only relation that survives the trials and tribulations of time and remains unconditional. A unique blend of affection, loyalty, love, respect, trust and loads of fun is perhaps what describes the true meaning of friendship. Similar interests, mutual respect and strong attachment with each other are what friends share between each other. These are just the general traits of a friendship. To experience what is friendship, one must have true friends, who are indeed rare treasure.
Friendship is a feeling of comfort and emotional safety with a person. It is when you do not have to weigh your thoughts and measure words, before keeping it forth before your friend. It is when someone knows you better than yourself and assures to be your side in every emotional crisis. It is when you can sleep fighting and get another morning with a better understanding. Friendship is much beyond roaming together and sharing good moments, it is when someone comes to rescue you from the worst phase of life. Friendship is eternal.
Monday, May 10, 2010
My First Blog
For our subject Information Technology, ur lecturer Mr. Willson Ching is asking all of us to create a blog with 10 posts with 10 country flags. This is my first time creating the blog and I really don't know what to write inside this BLOG..
First, we need to setting up GMail and sign up for Blogger. Name the blog and choose the template given by the Blogger. At last i have created my BLOG which is http://denisetan27.blogspot.com.
Unfortunately, my blogspot has disappeared when i sign in to my blogger account. I not able to access my Blogger account and i have to create a new BLOG. Finally, I get help from my classmate which is Carmen Yap (professional in blogging) to create a new BLOG which is this http://denisetan28.blogspot.com
ok let's start blogging.... ^.^v
First, we need to setting up GMail and sign up for Blogger. Name the blog and choose the template given by the Blogger. At last i have created my BLOG which is http://denisetan27.blogspot.com.
Unfortunately, my blogspot has disappeared when i sign in to my blogger account. I not able to access my Blogger account and i have to create a new BLOG. Finally, I get help from my classmate which is Carmen Yap (professional in blogging) to create a new BLOG which is this http://denisetan28.blogspot.com
ok let's start blogging.... ^.^v